Law of Attraction Is Kid Stuff
Ducky turns one year old in a week. Hard to believe. I can still close my eyes and feel that warm little ball of wiggles I held in my arms when we brought her home last October. Tim says he vaguely remembers being able to carry her around. She’s now almost 45 pounds of mostly spring-generated muscle.
Since Ducky is my greatest and most consistent source of joy (she’s sort of like a cannon that shoots me into the Vortex), I decided to spend a couple bucks for the props to stage a good Ducky birthday picture for The Joyful Springer (it will be on the site on the 24th). So a few days ago, Tim and I stopped in Wal-mart to get a birthday hat and balloon.
As we were heading through the store, we heard two little kids singing: “Happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday, dear Mary, happy birthday to you.” They were off key in the extreme, but what they lacked in musical ability they made up for in enthusiasm.
I smiled because I thought that was pretty amazing. Here we were to buy birthday items, and these kids were singing “Happy Birthday.”
The children were maybe three to five years old, a boy and a girl. Both were in a cart and both had big smiles on their faces.
After the first round of singing, they started over. This time, they sang happy birthday to Shannon. Then it was a round to David. Then it was a round to Brianna. And it went on.
“It sounds like they’re singing happy birthday to everyone they know,” Tim said.
I nodded, smiling even wider.
These kids were having SO much fun. Their mom was busy shopping, and they were oblivious to that. They were just singing at the top of their lungs, happy as could be.
“I want to be a little kid,” I said. “No worries. No figuring out how to get money or what to do next. Kids just have fun.”
“Then be a little kid,” Tim said.
I looked at him.
“Be a kid,” he repeated. “Forget worries. Stop figuring things out. Just have fun.”
I watched the kids again. I could feel the relief surge through me. Yes!
Of course, Tim and I were describing the Vortex. Though I’ve been in the vicinity of the Vortex more in the last month or so than I have in the last year, I realized as I listened to those exuberant children that I still wasn’t there as much as I wanted, and I may not have been there when I thought I was there. I know I rarely felt like those singing kids did.
I thought I was allowing things to fall into place, but I was still trying to figure things out. Yes, I had accepted what is, and yes, I had my mind on what I wanted instead of what is. Still, I was spending too much time thinking about HOW to put what I wanted into place. In other words, I was acting happy but I wasn’t truly vibrating happy.
Real Happy
I left Wal-mart singing, “Happy happy day to me, happy happy day to me, happy happy day, dear Ande, happy happy day to me.” It made me grin like an idiot. I’m pretty sure that’s the feeling of the Vortex.
That day in Wal-mart, those children serenaded dozens of people. I watched many blank or frowning faces transform into relaxed and happy faces as people turned toward the sound of the singing. Sometimes we don’t even notice that we’re not in joy until we see or hear joy. Then as our energy shifts to match it, we realize we had been a long way from it.
Pay close attention to how you feel. Are you happy or are you just acting happy? The law of attraction doesn’t care how you’re acting. It cares about how you are, or more specifically, how your vibration is.
You can’t fake vibration, and vibration is what attracts.
Tags: Law of Attraction, The Vortex, Vibration



July 17th, 2010 at 11:30 am
Oh, that’s PERFECT, Ande!
I’m so HAPPY to have a new favorite song: Happy HAPPY DAY to ME!
Thank you for that! I’ll be singing it forever! (and that’s a LONG time!)
July 17th, 2010 at 11:36 am
Can’t you just imagine walking through a Wal-mart singing “Happy Happy Day to me”? Why do we allow children to do these things but call in the men with the straight jackets if adults do it? I wanna play too!!!
July 17th, 2010 at 11:40 am
This is a great post Ande. I’m the same as you, tell myself I’m happy and in the vortex but when something like this happens I realise how far from it I’ve really been. This is going to be my new song too
And a very happy birthday to Ducky for next week xxxx
July 17th, 2010 at 1:02 pm
Thanks, Susan. It’s a great song, especially with a head bop and smile to go with.
Ducky thanks you for the birthday wishes.
July 17th, 2010 at 1:20 pm
Happy birthday to all of us!
Great post! Love the photo, too.
July 17th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
Love it, Ande! Happy burpday to Duckie and happy, happy day to us, one and all!
My Wal-Mart story from last week involved shopping for a little hand-held game system with my granddaughter, Akiko, 10. (She had been wanting a Nintendo DS, and I was excited about buying it for her.)
Anyhow, on our way to electronics, I said, “Oh, let’s just go down the shoe aisle really quickly. I love some of the comfy shoes I’ve gotten here.” Akiko rolled her eyes and said, “I have just 2 words for you, Grandma: self control!”
Then I pulled her down the kids’ shoe aisle, because sometimes I can wear large kid sizes. As I BRIEFLY looked at a pair of Hannah Montana sneakers with sequins, Akiko impatiently commented, “I have just 2 words for you, Grandma: KIDS’ shoes!”
And then I just had to say it — something I never say to anybody, anytime, anywhere: “I have just 2 words for you, Akiko. Shut up!”
Right then, a man with a cartload of kids came around the corner and gave me a knowing smile. I was amongst my own kind.
As we headed to electronics, I leaned over to whisper to Akiko, “I didn’t really mean for you to shut up. It was more of a joke.”
But she had already run ahead to ogle the treasures in the locked video game case. All was forgiven. All was forgotten — especially when I pulled out my debit card.

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July 17th, 2010 at 6:16 pm
LOL, Karen. Two words–shut up. I love how Akiko just bounced right back from that little “insult.” That’s a model for us all to emulate.
July 20th, 2010 at 8:38 am
Love the post and the picture. I tend to forget how wonderfully kind Tim is–this picture oozes his kindness through the camera lens. Love to all three of you and a great big happy birthday to Ducky!!
July 20th, 2010 at 12:52 pm
Aw, thank you! Ducky says thanks too! Do you remember when she was that little?