The Secret Is Wags

Two more little law of attraction evidence bits:

Canapé reference (3/3/10)

As I mentioned in my backstory, Tim lost a lot of his verbal skills when he suffered the head injury that wiped out most of his lifetime memories. He’s busy rebuilding his vocabulary. He reads a lot, and we play a lot of Scrabble, Boggle, and Quiddler. Still, he often asks me for definitions when he’s reading.

Night before last, he said, “What’s canapé?” (He pronounced it can-ape.)

I explained what a canapé was.

I haven’t thought about canapés in years. I haven’t been to any parties lately, and my friends are more the chips and dip crowd.

So last night, I was reading a novel (not the same one Tim’s reading), and there was a mention of canapés.

Too funny.

Sex Talk (3/4/10)

Tim will blush up a storm when he sees that I mentioned this here. Last week, I met (via phone), a very upbeat woman who has a new program out for couples who need to restart the sexual spark in their relationships. I’ve been reading her e-book, and Tim and I have been talking about sex, how we used to have lots of it, how lately, well, not so much.

We’ve had some fun conversations that I won’t share here.

This morning, an e-mail went out from my autoresponder to all the subscribers on my writing tips list, reminding them of the last few days of my special coaching deal offer.

One of the subscribers (he isn’t a subscriber anymore; we removed him from the list), replied that if I’d get down on all fours and …. the rest is X rated. Yuck.

BUT the point is that I’ve never had a subscriber make a sexual reference, not in the four-plus years I’ve been doing online marketing. So I thought it was pretty cool, from a law of attraction perspective.

Talk sex, get more evidence of sex.

Maybe Tim’s and my love-life is about to get a lot better.          

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One of the things that’s been hanging me up about Tim’s conviction about winning the lottery is the fact that, to my eyes, he doesn’t act like a lottery winner. It bugs me, even though I know that his alignment is not my business.

We’ve actually argued about it. I say that if he really feels like a lottery winner, he’ll act like one. He says he does feel like one but just doesn’t think to talk about it. I say that when people feel a certain way, they talk about it and their body language reflects it. He says he doesn’t know why he doesn’t talk about it or act like it, but he insists that he feels like it.

Back and forth we go.

How dumb is that?

We’re putting ourselves out of alignment by arguing about being in alignment. Total insanity.

I decided to put a stop to it.

Although I’m busy doing what’s necessary to bring in money in more traditional ways, I decided to amp up the happy feelings of winning a lottery. Instead of waiting for Tim do something that makes me feel like it’s coming, I’m doing it myself. (Finally!)

First, every time I see Tim (when one or the other of us comes into the room), I shout, “Yahoo, we won the lottery!!!!!”

The first time I did it, he jumped a foot, literally. Very fun. Made us both laugh. Which is the idea. Ducky got into it too. She thought it was great tail-wagging fun!

Of course, when I do that, Tim grins and then talks about something we’re going to do now that we’ve won.

Second, I made a little bet with Tim. Inspired by Seguro Ndabene and by all the law of attraction evidence I’ve been amassing, I decided I could darn well win my own lottery.

The one I have in mind is a smaller state lottery. I figure if I can manifest $2000, which I have in the last two weeks, I can manifest $100,000. So that’s what I’m going to do.

And I’ve bet Tim that I will win mine before he wins his. He, of course, believes he’ll win his first.

The loser of our bet has to wait on the winner, doing whatever the winner wants, including all cooking, cleaning etc. and including massages, for a full month.

Tim is convinced I’ll be waiting on him. Ha! I plan to win first so he’ll wait on me. Then he can win his millions.

Tim is a very competitive guy. He likes to win. I suspected that having this bet would get him talking a bit more about winning. And it’s working. He keeps asking me to do things for him, so I can “get in practice for losing the bet.”

It’s all fun, and that’s the name of the game.

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